Counseling is essential to the healing process for both the husband and the wife. It helps you work through the "whys" of sexual addiction and offers a mediator to help you communicate more effectively. Counselors have insight, outside your marriage, that might help you better understand what's happening inside your marriage. I highly recommend counseling for any couple who has been wounded by sexual sin.
The American Association of Christian Counselors
If you do not live locally, try this link to find a Christian counselor near you. http://www.aacc.net/resources/find-a-counselor/
Local Counselors in Central Florida
with Victory Church
1401 Griffin Rd.
863-859-6000, ext. 273
Dr. Richard Brimer
4404 S. Florida Ave. #3
Dr. David Clarke
6505 N. Himes Ave.
2225 E. Edgewood Dr.
One of the best resources for struggling couples is the support of other men and women who are going through the healing process as well. I highly recommend attending a weekly support group to receive encouragement, prayer, biblical advice, and also maintain accountability. Here are some links to find support groups in your area.
Be Broken Ministries Support Group Search
Celebrate Recovery (Rick Warren)
Click on "Group Finder" and find your state