Books and Resources

(In random order)

  Shattered Vows

by Debra Laaser


 The Power of a Praying Wife

by Stormie Omartian


Every Heart Restored

by Fred and Brenda Stoeker


Podcast with Gavin & Kristina Croft

by Jeff & Marsha Fisher of Porn to Purity.


Create in Me a Pure Heart

by Steve & Kathy Gallagher



The Healing Choice

by Brenda Stoeker & Susan Allen



Hope after Betrayal

by Meg Wilson



More than Desire

by Ashley Weis



by John and Stasi Eldredge

Healing For the Soul

     Healing for the Soul has many women counselors on staff ready to help. They have  "Victory  Teleconference" groups where they do phone therapy and support groups for both wives that are suffering, as well as those struggling with sexual addiction.


The Game Plan

by Joe Dallas

Finally Free

by Heath Lambert

Every Man's Battle

by Fred Stoeker and Stephen Arterburn


Counseling is essential to the healing process for both the husband and the wife. It helps you work through the "whys" of sexual addiction and offers a mediator to help you communicate more effectively. Counselors have insight, outside your marriage, that might help you better understand what's happening inside your marriage. We highly recommend counseling for any couple who has been wounded by sexual sin. 

You can go to The American Association of Christian Counselors to find a Christian counselor near you.



Support Groups

Having a support group was essential to our healing process. It gave my husband accountability and encouragement from men who have overcome addiction, and it gave me a chance to speak with other wives who were hurting just like I was. It helped to not feel like a crazy person because they were experiencing the same things I was! Support groups are an excellent resource for healing. You can find support groups in at local churches or at:

Every Man's Battle Support Group Search 

please call

800-NEW-LIFE (800-639-5433).

Be Broken Ministries Support Group Search

Celebrate Recovery



Clay & Susan Allen have created a great resource that provides curricula for small-groups to use in finding   freedom. They also have "virtual small groups" that they conduct via 800-numbers, so that people who aren't in churches that have small groups can have one via phone. They are very effective.


Faithful and True Ministries

Mark Lasser is an expert in the area of sex addiction. He and his wife Debra have great resources and workbooks for addicts and spouses of addicts. They offer counseling and phone support.



Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction

by Mark Lasser



Porn Again Christian

by Mark Driscoll



Redeemer Counseling Center

Christian organization that focuses on healing the heart through Christ. They are a full-service counseling center that serves East Orlando and the greater Orlando community. For those clients who do not live in the Orlando area, telephone and web-based video counseling are available.